与个人无关

周五的晚上看个文艺片最美不过了。爱尔兰和荷兰制片的Nothing Personal符合了文艺片的最基本要求,就是风景又静又美。孤独的旅行者和深居简出的大叔相遇了,镜头安安静静地摆放在那里,对着他们的小小的背影和只有风在动的原野。一开始女主倔的像头牛,不接受与男主一起吃饭,不告诉他她的名字。我一直以为在电影里,只有土耳其裔德国人才是这种长时间被更年期妇女附体的样子,没想到这是孤独过头的人的通病。男主为了保全“孤单”的自己最终选择自杀。女主角读的一本书上写着,“Nothing really disappears. Everything continues in the world of humans.” 孤独者比较神经的原因大概就是如此吧。宁静是信念,是不会被肉体和灵魂左右的。看豆瓣的短评有许多人写诸如此类的话:“看过却发现原来这样的生活却是自己也想要的,与世隔绝,有音乐,书籍陪伴着,可以做任何自己想做的事,无所谓孤独与否。”说这些的人是享受不到孤独的。因为大多数的人要的是用看上去平静的东西来定义平静的生活,而内心深处还是很难与世隔绝,说白了仍旧是在用一类过于表象的东西来填补空缺。

电影里有句话:The talent knows when to stop. 联想到自己的处境,如今正有又酷又拽地说出这句让人摸不着头脑的话的时机。可是说实话我有点害怕疯成这样。这样的自发选择的孤独和自我禁锢太刻板了。我不要变成被固定模板格式化的傀儡。只是,说一句 we should end up this的勇气还是要有的吧。

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