差异

刚刚思考了一下人们问候的方式,觉得中国人特实在。比如中国人想跟你聊天,他们会直接说嘛呢,或者在么。或者一部分老美会说sup。但是大量欧美绅士们非要问个how are you,这个问题已经被我列为n大恶心问题之一了。当别人问我好吗的时候,我全部会回复我很好,我不想照实回答一般、或者不好是因为,我实在讨厌去解释不好的原因,或者说懒也行。所以每当我虚伪的说出我还好,谢谢的时候,对方经常会开玩笑地回复说,你都不问我好不好啊。我心想,我才不要问这种造作的问题。

所以中国人的这种“不礼貌”的随意性深得我心。省去了无聊的开场白,而且通过聊天的语气态度可以分辨对方是好还是不好,何必一上来就要知道呢。

写到这里又想起了以前看过一组中国人和西方人不同行为的图片,红蓝交织的,相信好多人都看过。里面有一组对比就是西方人在询问意见、问问题、交流的时候,代表本方与对方的两点之间是一条直线,而中国人则是从本方出发,经过弯弯曲曲像迷宫一样的路径最终才到达对方的那个点。

在我的印象里,东西方文化差异还是相当大的。不过随着全球化,好像地球人对许多事情的态度变得越来越平均化,显得这个世界越来越中庸,漏斗渐渐变成了枣核。

不过我更感兴趣的是,等天下大同之后我们是不是可以和火星、金星探讨宇宙差异的问题了?

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